If you’re looking for a California destination that is sunny and warm with lots to do, be sure to add San Diego to your list. It’s a great destination for LGBTQ+ travellers and is definitely safe for lesbian women and female same-sex couples. Well known for its beaches and amazing weather, it’s a perfect stop on your trip through SoCal! We fell in love with San Diego’s lively neighbourhoods, beautiful water views, and welcoming gaybourhood. San Diego is a Southern California city that sits on the coast of the Pacific Ocean.